questions about relationships
the people you love, the ones you have drifted from, the conversations you keep rehearsing. these questions are about who you are when someone else is in the room.
today
every day there's one live question, the same for everyone. answer it anonymously, see what other people said. it's all gone in seven days.
answer today's question →- what are you afraid you’ll regret not saying?
- what are you carrying that isn't yours to carry?
- what are you carrying that someone handed you and never took back?
- what are you doing to be needed instead of loved?
- what are you holding in just to keep the evening pleasant?
- what are you still doing for the approval of someone who left?
- what are you still loyal to that isn’t loyal back?
- what are you still waiting for someone to undo?
- what conversation are you rehearsing that you'll probably never have?
- what did you decide was too much to ask?
- what did you do to be easy to love that cost you?
- what did you forgive too quickly because it was easier?
- what did you give that was never noticed?
- what did you let them rewrite about what happened?
- what did you lie about this week, even by omission?
- what did you outgrow that everyone still expects of you?
- what did you want them to notice that they never did?
- what did you want to be asked at dinner that nobody asked?
- what do you do brilliantly that no one thanks you for?
- what do you keep doing for people who wouldn’t do it back?
- what do you wish someone had asked you lately?
- what would change if you let one person all the way in?
- what would change if you stopped saying "it’s fine"?
- what would you ask for if asking didn’t feel like losing?
- what would you say if you weren’t the strong one tonight?
- what would you say to the friend who stopped calling?
- what would you say to the person who left?
- what would you say to the person you became for them?
- what would you say to your partner if they couldn’t hear it?
- what would you tell them at the funeral you can’t say now?
- what would you tell them if tonight was the night to say it?
- what's the apology you're still waiting for?
- what's the call you let go to voicemail on purpose?
- what's the favour you said yes to and resent?
- what's the friendship you've been letting fade?
- what's the help you turned down that you needed?
- what's the kindness you've never paid back?
- what’s the message you reread before you send it?
- what's the message you've been pretending you didn't see?
- what's the question you'd ask your parents if they'd answer honestly?
- what's the text you've drafted three times and never sent?
- what's the thing you keep almost telling your mum?
- what's the thing you keep rereading and not replying to?
- what's the thing you swallowed to keep the peace?
- what's the thing you'd say if you weren't managing everyone's reaction?
- what's the thing you'd say to your dad if he was here?
- what's the thing you'd tell a stranger before you'd tell family?
- what’s the version of help you’d actually accept?
- what’s the version of love you stopped expecting?
- who did you let go of that you still talk to in your head?
- who did you stop being honest with, and when?
- who do you keep at arm’s length to stay safe?
- who do you keep texting back happy when you’re not?
- who do you miss that you were supposed to be glad to lose?
- who do you perform "okay" for the hardest?
- who do you protect by lying about how you are?
- who do you want to be softer with?
- who do you want to find your way back to?
- who do you wish had fought harder to keep you?
- who do you wish would ask twice?
- who do you wish would call you?
- who do you wish would just check in?
- who haven't you replied to that you keep meaning to?
- who in your life is carrying something they haven’t told you?
- who knew the real you and left anyway?
- who knew you before you learned to perform?
- who showed up for you when you didn’t ask?
- who would be relieved if you finally said it?
- who would be surprised to learn you think about them?
- who would understand the thing you can’t explain?
- who would you call if it was acceptable to be this honest?
- who would you forgive if forgiving wasn’t the same as saying it was okay?
- who would you forgive if it cost you nothing?
- who would you let help if they offered it right?
- who would you let see you cry?
- who would you sit in silence with if they were near?
- who would you sit with at 3am if you could?
- who would you tell "i made it" if you could?
- who would you tell first if it finally went well?
- who would you thank that you never did?
- who would you visit if there was time?
- who would you want sitting next to you right now?
- who would you want to know you thought of them tonight?
- whose name made you flinch this week?