what are you still waiting for someone to undo?
some part of you is still waiting. not for closure exactly, but for someone to come back and undo the thing they did. to put something back the way it was before they changed it.
every day there's one live question, the same for everyone. answer it anonymously, see what other people said. it's all gone in seven days.
answer today's question →write down what happened. the thing that was done to you, or taken from you, that you're still waiting to have returned or repaired. name the person. name what they broke or shifted. then write about the version of yourself that existed before it happened. what were you like. what did you trust. what felt possible. now write about the waiting itself. how long has it been. what does the waiting feel like day to day. finally, write one honest sentence about whether the person you're waiting for is ever actually coming back to fix it. sit with that sentence. you don't have to do anything with it yet.
- write about an apology you're still waiting for and what you need it to contain.
- think about a version of your confidence or trust that someone damaged, and whether you've been expecting them to restore it.
- consider what it would mean to stop waiting, not to forgive, but just to stop holding the door open.
this is for anyone who knows, logically, that the repair isn't coming but hasn't let themselves feel what that means yet.